One thing that strikes me when I see the new guys entering the world of pickup is that they’re very accustomed to being the ones selected by girls. I mean, when you’re learning the skills to attract women you have to make many approaches, you see a set of girls and you approach them, hoping that the conversation doesn’t go sour.

And maybe you are making the mistake of not selecting the girl you want to attract before you made the approach.

Ok, I understand when that happens to the new guys. They are so focus on keep the conversation going that they turn their attention to the first girl that seem interested in them. But, what’s the point of that? You learn to attract women so that you have the power to attract the girl you want, not the first girl who’s giving you her attention. If you dig deeper you’ll understand why this happen:

Many of these guys are attracting the first or second girl in their lives. It’s only natural that they get excited and forget the girl that made them make the approach.

Now, I want you to ask yourself a question. When it comes to women and dating, are you the one selecting the girl you like?

Many of us struggle to approach and attract girls. And let me tell you: if you don’t have the skills to attract women you’ll be the one who’s getting selected all the time. And I’m being optimistic; many guys don’t get selected at all.

It’s a dog eat dog world out there, and if YOU want to find a great guy and what you’re doing isn’t working, it’s time to try something new.

Now a pickup line is only going to get things started and it’s up to you to make things work, but getting the conversation started is usually the hardest part, so I’ve put together a nice list to make things easier for you!

Now sometimes the usual, “Hi, my name is X” works great, but then things can suddenly cool off, and the situation could quickly get awkward. So having a clever pickup line can start off the conversation with a laugh, which can often turn into a great memory later on.

Here are 7 pick up lines that range from cute to corny for women to use on men:

There you go! 7 completely different conversation starters that are sure to be memorable and make him laugh.

Go have some fun with them. And when you’re ready for more tips, check out my website that teaches how to talk dirty and other tips and tricks men WISH women knew.

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1.) Congruence refers to having an internally consistent personality. Attractive women meet literally thousands of men by the time they reach the young age of twenty five, and they of all people would know that men would put their best foot forward when meeting them, because they know that all men would try to give a good impression.

2.) Women search for congruence in a man. If a man has supposedly given a women the impression that he has wealth and status, then he should be confident and already having lots of beautiful women around him. If you are shifty-eyed and talking nervously, women will know that you are being incongruent.

3.) Women place a lot of importance on a guy’s congruence. In short, women must be able to make quick judgements on whether the guy is the real deal or not. The last thing that a women would want is to be dating a guy whom she thinks is a movie director, only to find out that he is a jobless guy!

That’s all for today’s article on congruence. For more pointers on the topic of congruence, click here for more tips to seduce.

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Most men have a healthy or actually unhealthy dose of fear when it comes to approaching pretty women.  They may want to get with the hottest girls,  but do they really know how to be successful with these kinds of attractive women?

Probably not.

I have to tell you though,  once you start dating beautiful women,  you are not going to want to go back to sitting at home or hanging out with the fellas when you know that there is some place else that you want to be.

So,  how come so many guys fail to attract pretty women in the first place?

They give in to their fear and they stay far away at a safe distance.  And if they do decide to make an approach,  they do it in the worst way imaginable.  I can’t tell you how many guys I have seen stumble on their words and turn beet red in the face of attractive girls.

It almost makes you feel both sorry and a little bit ashamed all at the same time.  I mean,  does just a pretty face make you feel this way?  Want to know how you can change that feeling?

You can.  Even if you do not believe it at first,  you can learn how to change the way that you approach all women and especially beautiful women so that you create a sense of desire in her.

Go to: Dating Beautiful Women

to find out HOW!

Here are some female attraction secrets you SHOULD know:

1. Women love to be flirted with and they love to flirt back. The catch is, that you have to be able to flirt with a woman in a way that she finds enjoyable. What most men assume to work when flirting with a woman, turns out to do more to make her want to end the flirting than to keep it going.

2. A woman loves to feel safe and secure. When you are with a woman, you want to make her feel as though she is safe with you. This does not mean that you have to turn into a tough guy. You can make her feel protected in other ways. You just have to make sure that she does feel this way with YOU.

3. You have to TEASE her. Most men will shy away from teasing a woman, but this will absolutely drive her wild, as long as you do it the right way. A woman loves to have the feeling that she is unsure of what a man thinks about her. You don’t want to be seen as the bland and ordinary type. You want to make her feel excitement.

So, what should YOU do to attract a woman and keep her?

1. Start off on the right foot. This is why so many routines and gimmicks will fail to help you. If you use a routine and she finds out that it was not real, then she is not going to want to stay with you. I know a lot of guys that are good at picking up women, but they never get the second call from her as the woman easily realizes that the whole routine was just a charade to get laid.

2. Become a master at flirting with a woman. A lot of relationships die out when the two people stop flirting with each other. Things will get boring when this happens. When you are a master at flirting, it’s easy to build and keep attraction with a woman.

3. Learn how to talk to women. Now, don’t get me wrong here. You don’t want to become the kind that she talks about EVERYTHING with right off the bat. If you do, you can easily move into the friend zone even after you have dated and slept with her. But, you do want to be able to talk to a woman in a way that keeps her attention and keeps her waiting for YOUR nest word.

While there is some decent advice on how to attract a woman, most of it falls short when you want to know what to do to KEEP HER. These three tips will give you a great start at being able to attract women and have it stay that way.

Afraid Guys put women on this enormous “un-realistic” pedestal. So the idea of approaching a woman FEELS as though he’s a dirty homeless guy attempting to win the heart of super hot intelligent women who’s the vice-president of Fortune 500 company.

Successful guys realize that some women (very attraction, average, or unattractive) will like him and some women (very attraction, average, or unattractive) will not. And it’s no big deal.I was talking to one guy who said in so many words said that the prettier and more attractive the woman is, the more stuck up she is.Not to be “un-poetically” logical, but there are: 1. Unattractive women who are stuck up2. There are attractive women who are stuck up. 3. There are unattractive women who are NOT stuck up.4. And there are attractive women who are NOT stuck up.Successful guys can’t wait to approach women.Afraid guys won’t approach a woman if he doesn’t have his lucky shirt on. He looks for reasons to give himself an “out” to maintain to illusion that it was a situational thing.If you ask a successful guy when was the last time he approached a girl, he’ll wonder if it was Thursday or Friday. If you ask an Afraid Guy when was the last time he approached a girl and he’ll change the subject. For some reason, they’re not able to make the connection between “their invisible sex lives” and “not talking to women”.It’s like seeing someone repeatedly trip over bottles of water as they complain about being dehydrated.

Meeting women is easier when you have a buddy to go with you. Why? Because he can become your Wing Man. He can help introduce your and your qualities where you can’t. If you go spouting out your qualities and abilities, your going to come out sounding like a braggart instead of confident. Your wing man can help out in this area.

First, talk with your buddy about the types of things that you want him to say to the woman that your are wonting to be with. Basically coach him. Since this is word of mouth advertising he needs to be genuine. If he’s genuine, then he’s believable. Make sure that what he says is the truth; you don’t want some exaggerated tale to come back and bite you later on.

When you’re in a situation where the woman you want to be with is accessible, that’s when you want him to go and join into a conversation with her and her friends. As they’re talking, your wing man will bring you up in conversation, make a way to talk about your positive qualities or your accomplishments. This part need to come into the conversation naturally. Practice with your wing man different scenarios to use.

When he has made his comment about you, he needs to give you a high sign or some other way of introducing you to the group. By this time the group, and your girl, will already be familiar with who you are and that you’re a great guy. That’s what the wing man accomplishes for you.

This will work for both you and your wing man. If your both single and looking, go for a tag-team approach. Practice what you’re going to say for each other and how each of you is a great guy. This would be really fun at a party where there are a lot of women that you don’t know.

Hey, it’s about having fun, right?